Disappointed

So..... I get an email from Shane telling me he is smashed ( drunk) and needless to say about an hr before i got his email I sent him a nice sweet email telling him how much I love him and miss him and how I am so happy to be his wife. The email I got sent back was I'm smashed and I wanna do this and this and this and this to me. He tried to call me but  I didn't put international on his phone but he couldn't get through and he told me he wanted to call me and tell me all these things. Now some of y'all think you know me and some of you do. For y'all that don't know me if he would have called me with that shit I would have hung up on him. My first phone call from deployment would have been hey baby i miss the way you (Nasty) this and  ( Nasty) that. Ugh no! I want to know who the F his liberty buddy was ummmmm child.I mind the getting drunk now I don't mind if he drinks a few here and there but he doesn't even get drunk around me. He is constantly telling me he doesn't like the person he is when he is like that.  I need for him to know I understand this is his third deployment and I know they have been stuck on the ship for a few weeks but control yourself. I need him to remember that he is married and the shit he did on the first two he cant do on this one. I am more disappointed then mad. I swear he is oh so gullible. Have of the guys he hangs with aren't married and my thoughts are that they shouldn't even be allowed to associate.  I am disappointed in him and I don't think he could ever know how much!